You ask her why she doesn’t eat that food anymore.
She tells you she doesn’t care for it. She tells you she is full. She tells you it’s unhealthy. She tells you she is eating only raw food now.
She doesn’t tell you that it’s because of the calories, that it’s because she wants to lose weight, that she wants more than anything in the world to eat it and feel okay.
What is going on inside when you see her eat?
This is not easy. She does not wish to tell you. See, she can’t even talk in first person.